It was my absolute joy to recently be asked to photograph a pregnancy announcement for a woman in Hawaii who has chosen to be a Surrogate. From the initial conversation to actually photographing the IVF needles that were used for her to go through the process (which she assures me is actually not that many) I am in complete awe and amazement to have a sneak peek into this birth story. 

When it came time to photograph this image, I was a little selfishly excited; commercial photography was my first love when I was in photography school and I was looking forward to taking my time in the set up and perfecting each detail. Combining that with the subject of birth made it all the better. 

Image of IVF needles in heart shape taken to announce pregnancy for Hawaii surrogate mother. Photograph by Teresa Robertson of Robertson & co. in Hawaii.

But as I focused on each detail, carefully removed, delicately placed, and positioned each IVF needle I felt the important role each item played: How each carried hope, each signified loss, each triumphantly came together to create a life already loved beyond words. When working as a Doula or photographing birth, I often (and sincerely) comment on the honor I have playing a small role in new life. This project brought me even more appreciation, seeing a completely new perspective on the many, many details, consideration, and love that were planned - long before this pregnancy was real. 

I’m slowly learning more about the world of surrogacy, reading stories, even finding out that it is not even legal in every state. If you have gone through this journey, I would love to hear more about your experience. If you live in Hawai’i (where surrogacy is legal), please visit the Hawai’i Surrogacy Center website. General information in regards to Surrogacy in other states can be found here. 

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Teresa Robertson is a Studio Photographer, Family Photographer, and Birth Photographer located on the island of Oahu in Hawaii. After years of volunteering for families whose children did not survive pregnancy or childbirth, she has also worked as a Birth Doula (DONA trained).